What is true love ?

[Kshitij]

What is true love ?

[Krunal..]

Lost of Valuable energy    

 i know i m spoiling  post but  arey thoda  pj bhi to hona chiye na

[Hardik]

     Love gives beauty to everything it touches...Not greed and utility; they produce offices, but not dwelling houses.To be able to love material things, to clothe them with tender grace, and yet not be attached to them, this is a great service....Providence expects that we should make this world our own, and not live in it as though it were a rented tenement....We can only make it our own through some service, and that service is to lend it love and beauty from our soul. Your own experience shows you the difference between the beautiful, the tender, the hospitable, and the mechanically neat and monotonously useful...

[Kshitij]

I think defining love is very difficult. I think it is something which can't be put in words. People say its beautiful and amazing ... i have seen my friends do things out of way for someone special .. perhaps i will say something when you go out of your regular self .... that is Love ... love need not be the significant other only .. we love our family, parents, etc ..

let the discussion begin.

Kshitij

[Kshitij]

Very well put hardik bhai !!! its like expanding the knowledge which we all have Let more views come in ...

Kshitij

[kris]

True love according to me is when you willing to put your happiness behind for others happiness whom you love. But i really wonder in todays world does true love survives, its becoming more of give and take .So i will refer love than true love in discussion.As kshitij said its not just for particular person but can be anyone or anything.
Its very powerful feeling can make one saint and devil both depending how a person view his\her feelings.

[navinkalaca]

Lafz Na nikle phir bhi baat hoti hai
Kuch lamho ki bat bahut khaas hoti hai
Aap chahe Mane ye na Mane,
Lekin wo hamesha dil ke aas paas hoti hai

[viSh]

True love is a constellation of emotions and experiences related to a sense of strong affection or profound oneness. The meaning of love varies relative to context. Though often linked to personal relations, love is often given a broader signification, a love of humanity, of nature, with life itself, or a oneness with the Universe, a universal love or karma. Love can also be construed as Platonic love, religious love, familial love, and, more casually, great affection for anything considered strongly pleasurable, desirable, or preferred, to include activities and foods. This diverse range of meanings in the singular word love is often contrasted with the plurality of Greek words for love, reflecting the concept's depth, versatility, and complexity.

[Mahek]

true love !!
there nothing as such called as true love. its just the level of intensity and way you love matters; love is everywhere. you simply cant define what true love is. 

[amiT]

Some says
love cannot be put into words, it is expressed..thats the beauty of it

As per Robert Frost
"Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.

and others says
Love is when you see the world in her eyes.. And her eyes everywhere else in the world !
Love is when you can not sleep.. Because the reality is sweeter than dreams !

and according to me

Love is nothing more than feelings
For men it includes desire and for women it does includes emotions too, it consists of feelings, emotions, desire and need
Doesn't matter how we justify it , love is nothing but a way to gratify our physical needs

Luv is like Oxygen
Get too ,u'll fly
Get less n u'll die

[harshad lunavat]

love is a feeling shared by two people,which gives new dimensions to life....
it either makes ur life a heaven or can make it a living hell.....
love is life

[keyur]

2days young genre is forgetting the basic rule of love...

U cant call u r in love if ur love is one-sided or u hvnt proposed that grl!!

for me if u r in love then its necessary for ur love to be in love wid u.....if u like particular grl and u strt singing love songs...then sorry tyhats not love....either tell her that u r in love and c watt she says...or dont call ur infatualtion , a love!

Regards,
Keyur.

[Mahek]

2days young genre is forgetting the basic rule of love...
or dont call ur infatualtion , a love!
Regards,
Keyur.

thr is v fine line b/w infatuation & love and thts wht ppl mistake up vth... and end up calling their infatuation love and vice versa..... its not so easy to define love... but its a feeling pure and divine.

[Kshitij]

Completely agree with mahek ... it is really difficult to realize what is love and what is infatuation .. but once u understand life changes

love can never be a reason for any unhappiness, hate, tension, etc

love is about giving

Kshitij

[Amisha]

 Once when 2 frnds were sitting at the edge of a swimming pool, one of them filled the palm of her hand with some water and held it before d other, and said this:
"You see this water carefully contained on my hand? It symbolizes Love."

: As long as you keep your hand caringly open and allow it to remain there, it will always be there. However, if you attempt to close your fingers round it and try to posses it, it will spill through the fist cracks it finds.

This is the greatest mistake that people do when they meet love...they try to posses it, they demand, they expect... and just like the water spilling out of your hand, love will retrieve from you.

For love is meant to be free, you cannot change its nature. If there are people you love, allow them to be free beings.


Give and don't expect.
Advise, but don't order.
Ask, but never demand.



It might sound simple, but it is a lesson that may take a lifetime to truly practice. It is the secret to true love. To truly practice it, you must sincerely feel no expectations from those who you love, and yet an
unconditional caring."

[Abhishek Singhai]

jo apan shahi samay par nahi samajtai

[Nikita]

Love is any of a number of emotions and experiences related to a sense of strong affection or profound oneness.

[niravdoshi1984]

Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day
When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love

[india_dream]

I want to express my feelings through this simple but amazing Love Story      
 
He met her on a party. She was so outstanding, many guys chasing after her, while he so normal, nobody paid attention to him. At the end of the party, he invited her to have coffee with him, she was surprised, but due to being polite, she promised. They sat in a nice coffee shop, he was too nervous to say anything, she felt uncomfortable, she thought, please, let me go home. 
 
 
.... suddenly he asked the waiter. "would you please give me some salt? I'd like to put it in my coffee."    

Everybody stared at him, so strange! His face turned red, but still, he put the salt in his coffee and drank it.

She asked him curiously; why you have this hobby?

He replied: "when I was a little boy, I was living near the sea, I like playing in the sea, I could feel the taste of the sea, just like the taste of the salty coffee. Now every time I have the salty coffee, I always think of my childhood, think of my hometown, I miss my hometown so much, I miss my parents who are still living there".

While saying that tears filled his eyes. She was deeply touched.
 
   
That's his true feeling, from the bottom of his heart. A man who can tell out his homesickness, he must be a man who loves home, cares about home, has responsibility of home. Then she also started to speak, spoke about her faraway hometown, her childhood, her family. That was a really nice talk, also a beautiful beginning of their story.
 
 
They continued to date. She found that actually he was a man who meets all her demands; he had tolerance, was kind hearted, warm, careful.. He was such a good person but she almost missed him! Thanks to his salty coffee!  
   
Then the story was just like every beautiful love story , the princess married to the prince, then they were living the happy life...

And, every time she made coffee for him, she put some salt in the coffee, as she knew that's the way he liked it.
 
 
After 40 years, he passed away, left her a letter which said: "My dearest, please forgive me, forgive my whole life lie. 

This was the only lie I said to you---the salty coffee.  

Remember the first time we dated? I was so nervous at that time, actually I wanted some sugar, but I said salt. It was hard for me to change so I just went ahead.I never thought that could be the start of our communication! I tried to tell you the truth many times in my life, but I was too afraid to do that, as I have promised not to lie to you for anything..

 
Now I'm dying, I afraid of nothing so I tell you the truth: I don't like the salty coffee, what a strange bad taste... But I have had the salty coffee for my whole life! Since I knew you, I never feel sorry for anything I do for you.

Having you with me is my biggest happiness for my whole life. If I can live for the second time, still want to know you and have you for my whole life,even though I have to drink the salty coffee again".
 
 
Her tears made the letter totally wet. 

Someday, someone asked her: what's the taste of salty coffee?
 
     
It's sweet. She replied.
   
 

[Manoj Bumb]

Nice Explainations.


Love is difficult to define. Love is one of god's greatest yet most complicated creation.

[Krunal..]

thr was a nice view abt love from sushant wht he belives in love .....



this is in shusant's words...

well i m man of love and love and yes i was in love and i m always in love


i cant live without it ...... love dosent end with a specific person and its also nt necesary to have with one person only as isme love ki kya galti hai ki agar aalg alag time period par kiisi se ho jaye ... all i know we shud be able to figure out tat love and shdu acept it and also judge it how long we can take .. yes we shud be commited to tat particular moment but also nt so much commited tat ifs one day we feel we are nt having tat feeling than we are bounded with it as we have loved each other once...



simple example today u chated me so much ..................and might be u wil think about me also ...and migth be u were in love for me may be for a minute or 2 min or hour also....or day or week... and the next moment u get a better option than me so tat shud nt make u feel gulty as u were happy to know tat feeling and u are upgrading it with soemone else .. might be u are making it strong by being with me more and know me more....but its just a free feling with no boundation and u shud be happy for tat u were able to feel it as when we cry we dnt feel guilty as we cryed many times so why to feel bad tat we cant be in love many tims and who said tat u were nt in love before meeting me

ho sakta hai shayd tumne bahut baar kiya ho

mene kiya hai from my first day ofmylife

jab se hosh sambhala hai hehehehhe but just karta gaya love

jaruri nahi kahna pade
jaruri nahi mil hi jaye aapko

[Krunal..]

may be luv iss depnd on wht we view stuff aaround us for me its helping other i m in luv wid tht person whn i help coz thn only u can help him or her widout ny xpectations

frnds parents stranges ny one  []

i read some nice quote by some one tht "mere lie pyar karna yane dusro ko khus karna nd unki khusi main khud ko hasta hua dekhna" []